01、Part2话题
Describe a disagreement you had with someone
You should say:
Who you had the disagreement with
What the disagreement was
What happened
And explain how you felt about it
02、话题分析
“一次争论”是一道经历类新题，要把这道题讲好就是聊清彼此的立场，以及矛盾点在哪里。
关于选题方向，可以是一件生活小事（比如谁做家务、起床早晚、要不要关灯、谁拿外卖、去哪里玩等等），也可以是重要的大事（比如要不要留学/考研，要不要买房，买车选哪种，未来工作去哪里发展）。
接下来我们聊聊这道题如何“串题”：
谁和你的争论
“发小朋友”、“想要共事的家人”、“喜欢一起聊天的朋友”、“激励你做有趣事情的人”
对于什么事产生争论
“想参加的比赛”（你不想参加，对方想你参加）、“保持健康的方式”（你不想运动，对方想让你运动）“困难决定最终成功”（对方反对你做某事，你坚持做了最后成功）
第一小问“Who you had the disagreement with” 你和谁争论
先描述一下对方和你的关系，是你的朋友/父母/同事/室友等等，然后描述对方的特征，包括了名字、个性、目前的职业/身份等。紧接着可以结合“你们的关系”+他的“个性”聊一下你们对于“争论”的频次，比如我们经常会就事论事，吵起来也不影响我们的感情，或者我们很少争论，除非是非常重要的大事，再或者TA的个性很强势，想要我听TA的安排，所以我们经常产生分歧等等。
第二小问“What the disagreement was”争论了什么
首先要交代一下故事背景，在什么时间契机，你（们）决定要做什么，但是发生了分歧。然后和写雅思写作discuss both views类似，TA的观点是什么+TA的理由是什么，你的观点是什么+你的理由是什么，分别展开。
第三小问“What happened”后面发生了什么
有需要的话可以补充你们battle的时候，你做了什么举措，TA做了什么举措。最后就是围绕沟通结果和事实结果是什么，比如你们达成一个共识，只要你做到了什么事，对方就同意你，或者你们因为这个事儿闹僵了，彼此开始冷战，后面是谁先道歉等等。
第四小问“explain how you felt about it” 你对此有什么感受
两个角度可供参考，一是对于事情的感受或对于事情结束之后的反思，你可以觉得还好自己坚持，最后证明了自己能成功，或者以后还是得多为互相考虑，不要太任性、要控制自己的脾气等等；另一个是对人的感受，比如非常感谢对方对我的包容，或者真的受不了对方强势、控制欲非常强的个性等等。
下面是关于这个话题可以延伸出来的思维图：
03、答案示例
To be honest, I had a hard time coming up with something to talk about for this topic because I rarely disagree with my friends. I really didn't know what to talk about, but then I remembered an argument I had with my roommate a long time ago about who should sweep the floor.
I am not entirely sure when it happened because I do not have a head for dates, but I am guessing it must’ve been 2 or 3 years ago. At that time, I was still studying in high school and was sharing a room with my friend David. We would normally clean our room in turn. However, I remember, one day, I got sick and was having a headache. It was my turn to sweep the floor and take out the trash that day. But I did not want to do the cleaning because I felt really uncomfortable. My friend David was really unhappy with that because he thought that I was just lazy and was pretending to be sick. As a result, we just had a spat.
Anyway, how it was solved, well, I calmed them down first and then told him we should try to be understanding and learn to put ourselves in each other’s shoes. Both of us realized that we had been wrong, and we apologized to each other. In the end, David cleaned our dorm room. I’d say it ended pretty well.
The way I see it, I think it's okay to argue with friends and family sometimes, but the most important thing is to always try to talk things out with them.
亮点表达：
come up with 想出（观点、想法)
have a head for 没有...的头脑
in turn 轮流
have a spat 发生口角
put ourselves in each other’s shoes 换位思考
talk things out 讨论清楚，说出来
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